How to Attract Girls With the 4 Rules of Successful Flirting

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How to Attract Girls With the 4 Rules of Successful Flirting

Saturday, June 27th, 2009 Subscribe To Our Feed

Want to attract girls easily to you beginning RIGHT NOW? I’m about to share with you a powerful concept…

Humor.

If you’ve ever seen a survey that asks women what they want in a man, you’ll find that humor pretty much always comes within the top 3.

Sites on the Internet call flirting-with-humor all sorts of names…things like cocky-funny, simple teasing, sarcasm, and even “negging.” You might have heard one or more of these names before.

Many guys don’t know how to successfully flirt using humor, and they tend to mess up their chances of ever getting the girl as a result…

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If you are to get a woman laughing and SIMULTANEOUSLY attract her, there are certain principles you must understand that knowing them and following them will provide you great success with women and dating. They are the 4 RULES of humor to attract women.

RULE #1: No Clowns in Flirting

There’s a fine line between being funny and attracting women versus acting like a clown. You won’t attract women by being or acting like a clown. It can come off like you are trying too hard. You may have noticed this when other guys try to get woemn to laugh and end up making a fool out of themselves instead.

If you act like a clown, she perceives you as more desperate and with less social status…like you really badly want her to approve of you… And that definitely kills attraction.

And no slapstick humor. This only gets women laughing AT you when you want them to laugh WITH you.

If you are thinking about learning about humor from comedians, I would think twice. Although many comedians can get women to laugh, the comedians very rarely get laid!

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RULE #2: Tease Her

Perhaps you can remember how 5th grade boys tend to act a certain way when they like a certain girl. You may notice them call the girl names or even playfully pull her hair.

Although I don’t endorse pulling her hair (at least not for now), TEASING her is a fantastic way to incorporate humor into your arsenal for attracting women. Don’t be a jerk though. It’s about treating the girl in a particular way that displays to her you are totally comfortable in your own skin and can tease her.

There are many ways you can tease her. Here are a few…..

• Giving her a nickname (my personal favorite)
• Mocking her voice
• Playfully tease her about the things she says

By teasing a girl, you are assuming familiarity, and if the two of you just met and you are ALREADY teasing her, there’s really no “uncomfortable period” that typically happens when two people just meet.

RULE #3: Use Your Body Language

Great comedians tend to use their entire body while delivering their gig. I mean they involve their facial expressions, utilize props, gestures with their hands, and anything they can grab ahold of…all to get people to laugh.

Again, clown-like behavior doesn’t attract women. However, make sure you use your BODY LANGUAGE in ways that ensure congruence with the things you say. One way to do this is to establish physical contact while teasing her. This shows her you are a guy who is comfortable to play around her.

Some ways to do this are…

• Playfully swatting her
• Pushing her away, only to pull her back into a hug
• Playing games like “thumb war” and “hand slapping”

The overall concept here really is to simply break the “touch” barrier by using humor and incorporating attraction-related skills.

RULE #4: Vary What You Do

Want an analogy for using humor to attract women? Well, think of humor more like a spice than the meal itself.

By SOLELY teasing her and making her laugh, you don’t provide her the opportunity to notice the other great aspects of your personality, so it is definitely important to use other things that continue to help you build (and maintain) attraction.

Some things you can do while she’s laughing are…

• Establish physical contact
• Storytelling
• Build deep rapport
• Pose questions to her

Doing these kinds of things give her the chance to notice you as a well-rounded individual, rather than only as someone who can make her laugh.

Therefore, in your toolbox of tricks to attract girls, one of your most powerful ones is humor. Be sure to get it right by adhering to the 4 rules of humor you’ve just read so that you can create a connection that is both flirty and fun…and always works in your favor to get the girl.

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